A lady has reportedly passed away after discovering that her husband was cheating with one of his ‘groomsmen’.
The incident was shared on Facebook by a netizen identified as Shamimi Anase.
It was gathered that the wife identified as Doosuur developed high BP following marital issues with her husband, Sefa Awen.
Apparently, the lady had discovered that the man was cheating with a lady identified as Loveth, who served as one the ‘groomsmen’ in his wedding.
The full account read …
“What Happened to Our Friend Doosuur Henrietta Agbatar?
These are the details we know:
Doosuur was ill for about a week before her passing. She complained of chest pains and shortness of breath and had been receiving treatment. On the evening of 31st July 2025, when Sefa Awen, the man she loved and married, came to pick her up from work at about 6:30pm, she was visibly weak and could hardly walk short distances. He took her home instead of taking her to the hospital.
He had this usual way of scolding her whenever she was sick and saying she was only pretending so that he’ll pay attention to her. Information and documents available to us from verified public institutions reveal that by about 7:40pm, instead of being rushed to care, her lifeless body was delivered to the hospital. When Barr. Joe arrived before 9pm, he touched her body and realised she was already cold in death. The nurse confirmed she had been gone for a while before arrival. Dr. Uzer, a medical professional, confirmed he had received a call at about 7:18pm from her phone asking for a prescription and within barely thirty minutes her body was presented to him, lifeless.
Up till now, no explanation has been offered for what transpired between 6:30pm and 7:40pm when she was in Sefa’s care.
The tragedy of that night cannot be separated from the life of abuse and betrayal Doosuur endured in the eleven months of marriage.
From the beginning it has been revealed that Sefa was exploitative. He collected Doosuur’s mother’s Toyota Highlander SUV through Doosuur, sold it without disclosure, and never replaced it as he promised. Instead, he used the proceeds to buy a Toyota Camry in his own name.
He pressured Doosuur into granting him a ₦4 million loan from the family NGO she led, which he used partly to buy land and relentlessly pestered her to start building on the land. She also established a laundry business for him in North bank.
He wanted absolute control. Within two weeks of their wedding, after he moved into Doosuur’s apartment… yes, they lived in her apartment as he didn’t have one, he demanded that she resign as Executive Director of the NGO and sit put as house wife so he could take over. This was a man Doosuur herself had employed. At some point Doosuur was not worthy to sit on the Executive Director’s chair, but because she loved Sefa so much, even if she was sitting on the ED’s chair, for peace to reign she would get up so that he could sit as the ED. I worked in the same NGO and I know this fact personally.
In a meeting I attended shortly before the wedding he openly told staff that since some of us had always looked down on him, he had gone for the boss and now had her in his pocket, he then gave us the wedding invitation card.
Doosuur refused to step down and confided in us, pleading that we keep her disclosures secret as Sefa had threatened her that if their issues became public their marriage would be over. She begged us not to even share this with her family members.
The abuse was also emotional and physical. He flaunted his affairs with other ladies, hardly ever slept at home, and brazenly made calls to other women in her presence.
By 20th January 2025, Sefa Awen had even proposed a secret marriage to one Loveth Orva, also known as Love Loveth on Facebook. What Pastor Awen and the Awen family hides from the public is that Loveth had previously been in an intimate affair with Sefa’s own brother, David Awen. It was from a dispute between Sefa and Loveth over David that Doosuur first discovered their involvement. Later she uncovered intimate chats on Sefa’s phone which confirmed her worst fears. The mistake Doosuur made was to clone into his WhatsApp for a very long time to see all that he was doing with Loveth. She left proof of this, screenshots of their conversations which she wanted to use as evidence to divorce him.
Clearly, Loveth single-handedly destroyed that marriage.
Imagine knowing your husband’s every step while he looks into your face and goes out to sleep with another woman, but because you love him so much you decide never to confront him again after he insulted and threatened you for confronting him once before, and then you bottle it all up until your heart fails and you die. Doosuur developed blood pressure three months after her wedding.
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